Growing up on the south side of Newark, New Jersey, in the 1960s and 1970s, I was taught to believe that success was only for others. There was a prevailing belief in our community that we lacked the resources, knowledge base, and opportunities for success, making it seem unattainable for us to acquire wealth. Money was often considered the root of all evil in our neighborhood, and we accepted our fate of never having enough due to living in a world of scarcity.
As I grew older, I began to read personal development books and spent time with successful people in business and religious circles. It was then that I realized that money itself isn’t evil, but a tool. When used wisely, it can open doors and help one achieve success. I learned that I could shape my own destiny.
Upon reading Napoleon Hill’s “The Laws of Success,” I discovered that anyone who works hard and believes in their purpose can achieve success. I found that the key is to have a definite purpose aligned with God’s divine purpose. Family holds significant importance in my life, and I was eager to connect with both sides of my family and my wife’s relatives. We had several family elders in their 80s, and I felt a sense of urgency to bring everyone together quickly. So, I developed a clear purpose – getting everyone under one roof – and set clear objectives. These objectives were laid out over the year and executed step by step. I used the goal-setting plan I developed years back, called the “Destiny Action Plan,” which can be found under the courses tab on this website.
Reaching out to older family members through phone calls and emails was challenging and sometimes discouraging; however, I had a definite purpose. My “Why” drove my purpose past the obstacles and challenges. I wouldn’t let them hold me back, and my plan helped me stay on the right path without wavering. The result was a successful family reunion in Las Vegas, which was especially meaningful since many of our family elders had passed away. This family reunion was a success aligned with divine purpose.
Finding a definite purpose in anything you do can help you channel your energy and resources more effectively. This clarity helps align your actions with your goals, ensuring that you remain focused and determined, increasing your likelihood of success.
Here’s how you can find your Definite Purpose (DP):
1. Trust in God’s Plan: The Bible teaches us to believe in God’s plans for our lives (Jeremiah 29:11). By setting a DP, you can establish clear goals that align with God’s will and stay on the path toward success.
2. Live with Purpose: Ephesians 2:10 reminds us that we were created for good works and that our purpose is to live for God. A DP helps us set goals that benefit us and a more significant cause.
3. Set Goals and Persevere: Proverbs 19:21 encourages us to make plans and work hard to achieve them. By committing to a DP, we can maintain focus and determination to reach our goals.
4. Serve Others: The Bible calls on us to use our gifts to help others (1 Peter 4:10). A DP allows us to find ways to support those around us while pursuing our dreams. Success isn’t about race or background but faith, hard work, and living out your purpose.
My story inspires you to realize that your dreams are within reach. Embrace biblical principles and unlock a life of success and fulfillment – you’ve got this!
Dr. D
dcdardentalks.com
